On Brown’s theory of human universals. Even if you hate your neighbor, you may be more similar than first glance.

One significant source of complication in interpersonal relationships appears to lie in the delta between private universes of individuals interpreting external variables. This is further convoluted through generations of cultivated perspective and formative culture, in which we pile on cumulative layers of abstraction to the point where rote rituals suppress our awareness of baser driving forces.

There is some freedom in understanding such needs, rather than sublimating them to the subconsciousness. In the face of such awareness, it becomes easier to deviate from societal institutions in exchange for personal beliefs, some of which, your neighbor might find quite abhorrent.

A trade as it were, more freedom and autonomy, more room to innovate, but greater risk of drifting into unstable corruption and loss of value. Technology advances us to be more connected than ever, but also to feel more alone than ever.

In the comforts of isolation, we have forgotten the cost of civil unrest. It is likely that your neighbor too, feels alone, and could use a friend more than ever.